- Nora has her first "boyfriend." She and Jaxon play together "all the time" and "call each other girlfriend and boyfriend." I'm not crazy about the concept but seeing the two of them say hi to each other in the hall each morning is worth it. They both look SO bashful and smiley and cute.
- This weather is amazing. It makes me want to move somewhere more temperate. For now, I'll just lie to myself that our weather will ALWAYS be this way.
- Old friends. Spent the day with an old friend the other day. It was restoring.
22 March 2012
highlights
Posted by SaRaH at Thursday, March 22, 2012 0 comments
15 March 2012
highlights
- We went to the beach on March 14. Please let this be our new climate because we love it.
- Had a picnic lunch with the girls today.
- Birdy tells killer knock knock jokes.
- I'm grateful for access to good healthcare.
- Nora told me this morning that Grandpa was speaking to her from her heart. He was saying, "Move on.... Go on your journey." In a kind of spooky voice.
- Joe and I had third row seats to see Lyle Lovett and John Hiatt. We had such a wonderful time.
Posted by SaRaH at Thursday, March 15, 2012 0 comments
Labels: birdy, garden, joy, life, lists, nora, parenting, time
25 May 2010
in a people house
One day, I'd like a nicer bench, but this one was free and I just love its functionality. Especially when we can line up 4-5 kids there for a meal.
Almost free pillow covers to break up the leather on leather look. I love the print on these -- although, I am apparently alone in this opinion!
Posted by SaRaH at Tuesday, May 25, 2010 4 comments
Labels: family, freedom, garden, life, love, stuff, time, work
15 January 2010
veggie cobbler
from family fun magazine. This picture just looked so colorful and scrumptious to me:
I'm not posting it because it was the best dish ever. In fact, if you look at the picture of ours, it was a bit gray. I'm posting it because chopping up vegetables in the middle of winter lifted my mood so much. It's reminiscent of summer and fruit salads and lightness. And for that reason alone, I recommend making this with fresh veggies even though (and I hate to say this) it would have been just as good with frozen vegetables.
For next time, I would add celery, use frozen vegetables if I'm in a hurry, and possibly use chicken broth for my family of carnivores.
Vegetable Cobbler Recipe
Ingredients
FOR THE FILLING:
1 large baking potato, peeled and cut into a 3/4-inch dice
1 1/2 cups each of peeled and thinly sliced carrots, frozen peas, sliced mushrooms
1/2 cup each of broccoli florets, frozen corn kernels, diced butternut squash
3 1/2 tablespoons unsalted butter
1 large onion, quartered and thinly sliced
3 tablespoons flour
2 1/2 vegetable bouillon cubes dissolved in 1 1/4 cups hot water
1 cup milk
1/2 teaspoon each of salt, celery seed
1/4 teaspoon pepper
1 teaspoon thyme
1/3 cup grated Parmesan
FOR THE TOPPING:
3/4 cup yellow cornmeal
1 tablespoon plus 1 teaspoon sugar
1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
1/2 cup milk
1 large egg, lightly beaten
1 tablespoon oil
Heat the oven to 400º. Place the potato, carrots, peas, broccoli, corn, and squash in a medium-size pot and fill it with enough water to cover the vegetables plus one inch. Lightly salt the water, bring it to a boil, then allow the vegetables to continue boiling for 4 minutes. Drain and rinse the vegetables with cold water and set them aside.
Melt the butter over medium heat in a large, deep skillet or Dutch oven. Add the onion and mushrooms and sauté them, stirring often, until they're soft, about 4 minutes. Stir in the flour and cook the mixture, stirring nonstop, another 30 seconds. Add the vegetable broth, milk, salt, pepper, thyme, and celery seed and continue to stir until the sauce thickens, about 4 minutes.
Add the vegetables to the sauce and stir well. Add more salt and pepper, if desired, then stir in the Parmesan and bring the filling to a simmer. Thin it with water if its consistency is thicker than potato soup. Transfer the filling to a casserole dish.
Make the corn bread topping. In a medium-size bowl, whisk together the cornmeal, sugar, baking powder, and salt. Add the milk, egg, and oil and stir until evenly blended. Spread the batter over the filling. Bake the cobbler until the top is golden brown and the sides are bubbly, about 25 minutes. Allow it to cool slightly before serving. Serves 8.
Per serving (1 cup): Calories 275Total Fat 10 g (15% DV) Saturated Fat 6 g (29% DV) Cholesterol 51 mg (17% DV) Sodium 669 mg (28% DV) Total Carbohydrate 42 g (14% DV) Fiber 4 g (15% DV) Sugars 10 gProtein 9 g (17% DV) Vitamin A (115% DV) Vitamin C (30% DV)
Posted by SaRaH at Friday, January 15, 2010 1 comments
31 December 2009
celebrate ruminate appreciate seal your fate
i love simplemom. So bear with me for one more interview from her site -- I found the other one clarifying.
1. What skill do you most want to learn this year?
I want to find and adopt a home management technique that really works for us. I am trying FLYLady right now and will move on to other systems if this one doesn't fit. I no longer want to spend time feeling guilty about the house not being perfect -- or even worse, spend time NOT doing something I think I should do so that the time is a double loss.
2. What is one skill you already have that you’d like to improve this year?
Really enjoying the good stuff.
3. Name three books you most definitely want to read in 2009.
'Love in Infant Monkeys' by Lydia Millet, 'Imperfect Birds' by Anne LaMott (can't wait for this one!), and 'Dry' by Augusten Burroughs
4. In what specific area do you most want to encourage your spouse? What are some ways you can do this?
He works very hard and I would like to be more supportive of his career aspirations and what it takes to attain them. I can do this by having the house running smoothly, appreciating his hard work, and encouraging him.
5. Think of one of your major life goals. What will you do this year to make you one step closer to reaching that goal?
My major life goals have all taken detours. I'm no longer sure where I want to land.
6. Name your kids’ biggest strengths. What are some ways you can specifically nourish those strengths?
Nora's strengths include how hardworking she is, her independence, creativity, and determination. I can offer more opportunities for her to try new things that stimulate her traits and expose her to possible new strengths.
Birdy is a good cuddler and I'd be more than happy to cuddle her all she can take.
7. Name your kids’ most prominent weakness. What are some ways you can encourage their ability to overcome it?
I feel blind to their weaknesses. I suppose that Nora is quite stubborn and can be inflexible. I can work on giving her tools to express her frustrations and to find acceptable solutions in situations where she does not want to flex.
8. What is one of your strengths? Think of some specific ways you can exercise it this year.
I'm good at leading things I am passionate about. I can join/start something at church. I can work hard to keep my heart open in all relationships so that I don't miss opportunities.
9. What is one of your weaknesses? Brainstorm some ideas on how you can overcome this deficiency.
My depression is a huge weakness. I can keep seeing the doctor and keep taking medications. But what I'd really hope for is finding my place on this earth again and enjoying health.
10. Think of an important relationship aside from your spouse and children. How will you nurture that relationship this year?
I pick Mom. I will work to support her and listen to her without an agenda of my own.
11. Name a few ways your physical health could be improved.
I could lose weight, become more active, and go to bed earlier.
12. Name a few ways your family’s financial health could be improved.
We could spend less, save up for some specific goals, and pay off debts.
13. In what way do you want to draw closer to God?
I want to fully trust Him and His grace. I could be more prayerful and less willful.
14. What is one area of home management that frustrates you? Think of some specific ways you could improve your attitude about it.
Grocery shopping and cooking dinner. I need to let go of my previous life (a lifetime ago) where my efforts were mistreated and learn to perform these tasks joyfully. OR figure out how to delegate them...
15. Have you ever created a family mission statement with your spouse? If so, why not do one for this year?
We need to do one for just the four of us. We've had one when we had no children and have created drafts for our family with Jordan and with Denise. It's time we have our own. As I reflect upon my reluctance to do so, I'm realizing that my symptoms of depression make me feel as though I cannot do what is 'right' or will fail Joe and the girls. One of my goals must be to find proper treatment --medication, if necessary-- to make the symptoms have less power in my life.
16. Name one specific thing you could do with your spouse this year that will deepen your intimacy.
Go away with him overnight. Support him in pursuing a hobby or class outside of our family.
17. What is something that is continually undone in your life? What will you do to fully complete it this year?
Our scrapbooks. I need to either catch up or let them go.
18. In what ways will you be involved with your local community?
Church, activities for Nora, and once Birdy is a bit older, volunteering for the local shelter.
19. What is one thing you’d like to accomplish by your birthday this year?
A smoothly running home.
20. Think of three words you’d like to describe your 2010.
Energetic, Organized, and Joyful.
28 April 2009
its hard to stay at home
and i don't mean the gig -- i mean actually, physically staying. at. home. When we first decided that I would become a stay at home mom, I made a gargantuan list of things that I would do in each room of the house. Spring cleaning things, detail things, and things that I simply hadn't gotten around to while working outside the home. I was so excited and I figured I could do one room a day (with some exceptions) on any day that we actually would be home all day. My first day that this occurred, I learned that I had mistakenly left out a two and a half year old and a pregnancy out of my "room a day" equation. I got almost half the kitchen done and thought, "Oh! I'll just have to adjust my plan to one room every TWO days that we're home." Only... we haven't had another day at home. In two weeks. For real. That's not to say that we've been wasting time -- we've accomplished great and worthy things: Nisey will attend a new school come fall that is 50% African American, we've found Mom a possible new home near our home that will accommodate the new school district, we're working to put Mom's current home on the market by next week, we've gotten Susie's disability approved and have an appt with Job Corps for her, I'm working on some print projects for a local Breast Cancer walk, we've gotten the garden loosely 'started' and added a compost bin and rain barrel, we've read books, played, laughed and visited with friends and family, and most of the time we have clean, put away clothes, and some groceries. Next is a therapist for N, and college appointments for B. I could say that I need to learn to say 'no', but everything on that list is more important than deep cleaning and organizing. I'm sure there come a day when things are more settled and we'll get that list knocked out. Until then, it's a balancing act that I might as well learn to enjoy. Any tips will be greatly appreciate.
17 April 2009
adjustments
bliss is how i'm currently describing this having one job at home. We've got a good flow going but I've found that Nora is accustomed to her care provider being at her command. I remember C. teasing me that Nora would be a kid who grew up with a nanny - meaning spoiled. I laughed about it. Ha! I needed to clean the house today and Nora wanted me to play with her every moment and on command. I would straighten one room and then join her for a bit. At first, she was mad about this arrangement and insisted that I play NOW. But once she cried a bit about it, she started to play so nicely and I even heard her singing to herself. Beautiful sounds.
Random notes about Miss N.: Nora enjoyed playing with her water table today -- I put river rocks in the 'sand' side (my friend E. came up with the idea) and she just had a blast. She also loves to dig for worms and hold them to decide if they're the mommy, daddy, or baby, and then dig new home for them. Nora is also a really motivated weeder. This is going to come in handy once we have this garden going!
Posted by SaRaH at Friday, April 17, 2009 2 comments
16 April 2009
loving it comes faster than i thought
staying at home, that is. I thought that it would possibly take months for my brain and heart and life to absorb that I really had quit my job. That each day belongs to me and my family to do the best we can... I was wrong. So wrong. It's day one of my SAHM life, and I. GET. IT. And it's wonderful. Nora and I have a pretty busy schedule for the remainder of this week, but then, guess what? We have NEXT week. And the next and the next. We will no longer struggle to balance the demands of two full-time jobs and family. I will no longer be eye twitching and throwing up from the stress of my stupid job. I am free to help my sisters and mom, garden, play, and form the life I want. Don't get me wrong... I'm sure that toddler company 24/7 leaves something lacking and that the daily rhythm of the home can get tedious. But I'm also sure that it's tons better than the job I just left. I wish I could bottle how grateful and free I feel today so that I can pull it out someday when I need it. I don't want to forget how blessed we are.
I'll leave you with a text from Joe that I awoke to this morning: "It's a great day knowing that you are home caring for Nora. Thank you so much for letting go of [my old company] and trusting in me and our relationship. I love you like crazy."
And here I thought it was all about me...
10 April 2009
t minus 4.0 days
the working kind of days, that is. I'm going to be a stay at home mom as of April 16,2009 and I simply cannot contain my joy any longer. A full briefing will follow the blast off.
Posted by SaRaH at Friday, April 10, 2009 9 comments
23 March 2009
feeling the wind
oh, there's so much to post that i really don't know where to begin. Between missing Dad, keeping tabs on my mom and sisters, and being sick most of last and this week... what I really didn't need was for my work stress to evolve into legal stress. But it did after all these years... Y. thinks that perhaps frogs might rain upon our home or my hair might fall out next. I wouldn't be surprised. I won't write about it here unless I start securing the blog but my point is this: Right now, I feel extremely stressed and stretched to my limits in every way. This afternoon, I wanted to curl up in bed after work but Nora (my new NO NAP Nora) wanted to go out into the cool breezy gray day. As we sat playing in the sandbox, she sang and laughed and I prayed and just felt the moment. And it was good. All will be well.
20 August 2008
the county came
doesn't that just sound like the beginning of some southern novel touted by that she devil, oprah? I guess that provides me some perspective that its not as bad as it could be. They've been out over ten times over the past three months because a neighboring property is getting water from what the neighbor believed to be our property. Three dye tests showed us to be in the clear. Until this week, I guess. They came back and did it again and this time, it showed that it's our septic. Even the county guy can't believe it. It just makes me sick. We just had a huge new system put in a year and a half ago. Paid a ton. Had our entire yard dug up. Replanted. Babied the lawn. Planted our perennials. Planted our bushes. It all makes me want to cry. I seriously can't face any of it again.
I'll try to work on gratitude over here.
Oh, and they took my Obama sign again.
Posted by SaRaH at Wednesday, August 20, 2008 0 comments
15 July 2008
may you thrive where you're planted
Posted by SaRaH at Tuesday, July 15, 2008 1 comments
18 June 2008
what's eating you
our yard is similar to a vast wilderness in the amount of neglect it received prior to us moving in. In fact, it's worse, because there are these random areas of buried glass (yes, broken glass -- tons of it. I wonder what they were trying to grow.), kingkong size rhubarb, and other random things I don't want. Each year, we stake our claim a little more -- mostly with very low maintenance perennials that we can later split. There are other areas that we will don't ever really want to 'take over', but I'm slowly adding lilies, hostas, phlox, and daisies so that at least I like to look in those directions. Anyhow, there are a few riddles I need to figure out.
some pics of Nora from this morning
Posted by SaRaH at Wednesday, June 18, 2008 2 comments







